And if so how did you move on or heal? Personally it took me 5 years to move on and I’m about to have it broken again lol but hey at least now I know how it feels agony-turbo

Still makes life a bit more interesting and thrilling, nothing harder imo than telling someone else how you really feel, it’s terrifying.

  • Zodiark [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    11 months ago

    Yeah. I’m grateful for the pain and resent it at the same time, but cliche as it is to say, learning to love yourself insulates you from the worst as time wears on. It also depends at what stage in life you had your heart broken; the first time, especially when you’re young,is profound, beautiful, and serene and also the worst.

    It gets better but only because you’ll accumulate other experiences and ambitions to expand your dimension as a person that is not centered around a partner.

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    11 months ago

    5 years? How long were you with this person? And yeah I have. It sucked hard and I spent a good chunk of time moping and obsessing too much over it. Spending more time with friends and family helped me get my head out of my ass, but it was still pretty difficult.