I don’t think I really need to explain much, their admins are transphobic.
https://hexbear.net/post/1587342
Snowe, an admin, complained about a transgender person being offended over being misgendered. Ategon made an apology post but keeps snowe on, no public apologies from snowe to the transgender people affected.
Textbook
note: conversation about Ategon’s use of the word triggered edited out, might be misunderstanding, need clarified
Your transphobe partner should apologize and step down rather than having you do it.
It’s cowardly and pathetic.