- cross-posted to:
- blogging@programming.dev
- lemmy@lemmy.ml
- fediverse@lemmy.ml
- cross-posted to:
- blogging@programming.dev
- lemmy@lemmy.ml
- fediverse@lemmy.ml
I made a blog post on my biggest issue in Lemmy and the proposed solutions for it. Any thoughts on this would be appreciated.
Too much time living in Germany, sorry. ;)
Seriously, though… Look at the submission:
I have all the patience in the world when someone starts an argument from the position of a learner, trying to understand the situation and willing to accept that they are the ones that need to adapt to something new. But when someone starts arguing already from the position of unearned authority (like the title) and wants to turn “their” problem into other people’s work, then yes I will respond in this abrasive way.
You don’t think there’s anything on your end that can be improved? You don’t think you can do better?
Always, but how is this related to the discussion at hand?
Do you think that if my responses were more tactful, OP would change his mind or at least give some thought about their own (passive-)aggressiveness on the post?
Without a doubt in my mind, yes. You would have that effect on the OP. But not just OP, everyone else reading as well.
If that is true, then why hasn’t OP responded well to the other more tactful responses?