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arrow-up173arrow-down1imageMe IRLhexbear.netDirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]@hexbear.net to traaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnns@hexbear.netEnglish · 9 months agomessage-square13fedilinkfile-text
minus-squarePapaEmeritusIII [any]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up39·9 months agoIf your crush wouldn’t be into you when you’re at peace with yourself, they’re not worth it
minus-squareSacredExcrement [any, comrade/them]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10·edit-29 months agoMoreover, even if you try and ‘make yourself be at peace’ while trying to conform to what your crush likes, you’ll eventually end up resentful Either loathing yourself for trying to be who you are not, or resenting your other for not liking you for ‘who you are’ Or both Really, just be yourself comrade. It’s easier and better for you
If your crush wouldn’t be into you when you’re at peace with yourself, they’re not worth it
What they said
Moreover, even if you try and ‘make yourself be at peace’ while trying to conform to what your crush likes, you’ll eventually end up resentful
Either loathing yourself for trying to be who you are not, or resenting your other for not liking you for ‘who you are’
Or both
Really, just be yourself comrade. It’s easier and better for you