…how on one hand there’s a male loneliness epidemic and women are partly to blame because we’re so picky - and yet on the other hand things like this.
How can we both be desperately needed for your emotional health but also be huge annoying burdens? I don’t get it.
I would say that to some degree the terminally lonely are not the ones expressing distaste for annoyance (that is likely people who live together and don’t have much separation/boundaries).
There also may not be an answer. Two people can have conflicting preferences with neither being wrong.