One of the things I don’t really want to self host is a mail server, especially for outbound mail. Currently I’m using a Gmail account, but I want to change that.

What do you all use for things like notifications sent through smtp?

I’m leaning towards AWS SES since it’s cheap, but I know there are some other options like mailgun and sendgrid.

  • TheOneCurly@lemmy.theonecurly.page
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    2 years ago

    SendGrid hasn’t failed me yet. I can’t speak on pricing though, I basically only use it for password resets on some self hosted services so the free tier is all I need.

    • GreyBeard@lemmy.oneEnglish
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      2 years ago

      I use SMTP2Go for a verity of things. It’s simple and pretty configurable. If you are using it, I recommend setting up a subdomain specifically for sending mail, that way you can isolate SPF/DKIM records from your primary domain.

  • eddie@fig.systemsEnglish
    4·
    2 years ago

    I’m using mailgun and have had zero issues with it. Hard to beat since it’s free.

    • johntash@eviltoast.orgOPEnglish
      1·
      2 years ago

      I might be missing something, but isn’t mailgun only free for the first month? It looked like their cheapest plan is $35/mo after the 30day trial.

      • eddie@fig.systemsEnglish
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        2 years ago

        You know I think you’re right. I might be grandfathered into an old plan. I’ve been using mailgun for over 3 years

  • Matt@netmonkey.techEnglish
    4·
    2 years ago

    Sendgrid has a free plan, I know, but I believe you’re limited on the number of emails you can send per day.

  • PhilipAEnglish
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    2 years ago

    I also thought about using AWE SES, but I decided not to use it, since I was “sandboxed”(See more here).

    I decided to use MXRoute, which have worked great for me so far. It is more expensive(50$ per year), than purelymail and Migadu, but for me reliabillity is very important, so I don’t mind paying a bit extra for it.

    • johntash@eviltoast.orgOPEnglish
      1·
      2 years ago

      $50/yr isn’t too terrible if it’s good. Do you use it only for outgoing notification type e-mails or do you use it as your main email too?

      • PhilipAEnglish
        1·
        2 years ago

        I use it as a mail for different domains I own(For in and outgoing mail), but not as my own main email. Mostly because it would be a hassle to switch my main mail over.

  • Illiterate Domine@infosec.pubEnglish
    3·
    2 years ago

    There’s a proton bridge docker container out there that I’m planning to standup this weekend for SMTP use inside my home lab.

    • johntash@eviltoast.orgOPEnglish
      1·
      2 years ago

      This is the first I’ve heard of purelymail. It looks really cheap. How do you like it so far? I’m using fastmail currently for most of my domains, but have been considering moving my incoming e-mail too.

      • mikehunt@lemmy.worldEnglish
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        2 years ago

        Love it. Heard about it from HN some years ago and been using it since. The guy who runs it is super friendly and aswers mails quickly too. And yes, it’s super cheap, I’m using the “usage based” pricing or whatever it’s called.

  • Rick@thesimplecorner.orgEnglish
    2·
    2 years ago

    This is a weird one. I have my instance in a database that blocks smtp and all it’s alternative and secure ports. Is there anyway for me to get smtp out of here? Id have to fiddle with Lemmy’s functions. I imagine an API or something. Anyone have experience with this?

    • johntash@eviltoast.orgOPEnglish
      3·
      2 years ago

      Does your vps provider block outbound smtp to port 465/587? Usually providers only block port 25 outbound so that the vps can’t send mail directly to a server (and can’t host incoming mail). I haven’t seen many providers block smtp altogether.

      If that’s the case though, services like sendgrid do offer http apis. I’m not sure if there’s any sort of smtp-to-http relay bridge, but I wouldn’t be surprised if there is one. Otherwise Lemmy would have to support the specific api to send e-mails through.

  • gregw@lemmy.gregw.usEnglish
    2·
    2 years ago

    I set up a smtp relay with gsuite for outgoing mail but don’t think it is ideal; it is tied to my user. It was just expedient rather than preferred.

    Totally looking forward to the answers here.

    • johntash@eviltoast.orgOPEnglish
      1·
      2 years ago

      That’s pretty much my concern as well. Most of my notifications (lemmy/etc) get sent from a gsuite account or a fastmail account. I don’t really want any automated e-mails being tied to my personal accounts like that.

  • bl00dmeat@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    2·
    2 years ago

    If you want free options, I often use MailEnable and hMailServer in lab environments. Also a free Azure developer trial includes some M365 licenses, and it pretty much always auto-renews every 90 days (I’ve had a few tenants going for YEARS now)

    • johntash@eviltoast.orgOPEnglish
      1·
      2 years ago

      Oh man, I have enough bad memories from MailEnable :D

      That’s a good tip about the 365 license though, I didn’t know it could renew for free. I might try it just to learn more about azure.

  • dap@lemmy.onlylans.ioEnglish
    2·
    2 years ago

    I actually setup SES for my Lemmy instance. I was evaluating SendGrid but less than 24 hours after signing up they closed my account with zero explanation so…yeah lol.

    I was sandboxed in SES initially but I created a support ticket asking for production access and I was good to go. No issues with SES thus far.