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  • EelBolshevikism [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    7 months ago

    I haven’t started HRT myself yet though. TBH that might explain most of it, I mean I’m somewhat androgynous right now even without HRT but if a girl is exclusively sapphic they probably wouldn’t be into me

    • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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      7 months ago

      Yeah so I’m 4 months in and I definitely still feel quite weird about being with purely Sapphic women. For the most part actually I just get absolutely no interest from them. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t go to a lesbian bar. At least with my local bar it is a lesbian bar but queer folks are very allowed and trans people are very accepted.

      I’d you’re concerned with finding a lesbian girlfriend - it’s certainly possible I think but is also kinda hard in my experience. I myself was hoping for more by now but still getting very little interest. I do have other non op trans friends though who are getting lots of interest from cis girls.

      There is also a conringwnt of lesbians who apparently do like dick but don’t like men. So we’ve got that going for us lol

      Pan and bi girls I think are probably most likely right now and of course transbians.

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        7 months ago

        It’s definitely worth going for just friends, but do you think it’s possible that enough bi/pan girls would be there for there to be people interested in me? Tbf though I’m not super into polyamory so that might put me into super forever alone category. Every cute girl I’ve met has been poly and focused on their boyfriend primarily

        • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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          7 months ago

          I wouldn’t say you’re in forever alone territory. I know a few trans girls who have cis girlfriends who are monogamous. Seriously it will be OK. And generally idk I would say let things progress and it will get better ❤️ are you planning on getting on HRT?