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The original was posted on /r/autism by /u/inappropriatusqueshn on 2024-04-09 17:06:00.

My partner has Autism and is non-binary, they have had some wild experiences in their life. We have been in a relationship for six months and in the early stages I did not mind them telling me stories about weird hookups and the fact they have had sex in public before.

But recently my attitude towards these stories changed because I am madly in love with them, and I made it clear to them that I do not want to hear about them (They promised me not to repeat them in front of me); I feel that if I were not a virgin before I met them I would understand that it is not a big deal for most adults (I also come from a very conservative country so sex was just not possible for me, let alone queer sex).

They have violated the promise twice now (yesterday they talked about having sex with their friend’s girlfriend in front of their friends when I was sitting in their lap just two minutes ago) and tonight was very triggering as we were on a walk and doing some stargazing kissing and hugging each other.

They pointed out to the woods nearby just after I kissed them and said they had sex with their pretty girlfriend in the woods (about 50 metres away from where we just kissed) one night in 2019 because their dad wouldn’t let their girlfriend stay at the house. I was about to cry as soon as I arrived home and my mood was ruined by the thought “are they hanging out with me or the memories of their ex gf (she is very pretty)” circling.

They have profusely apologized both times and I know that their heart is in the right place as they sometimes just say stuff as an infodump, am I going crazy?

Does anyone have any advice on how to help keep them more vigilant about this?

Edit: They use They/He pronouns, that’s why I used his in the title.