• WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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        6 months ago

        This isn’t a transfem community, nor a transfem enby-excluding community, afaik. There is a transfem community on Lemmy, but it’s explicitly inclusive of enbies, so still not just a women’s space.

          • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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            6 months ago

            Enby is an umbrella term that can includes people who are transmasc (ie: demiboys, libramascs), transfems (ie: demigirls, librafems), multigender, agender, genderfluid, and xenogenders. Transfem just describes the direction of transition and is not just limited to binary trans women.

          • fracture [he/him] @beehaw.org
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            6 months ago

            the way you’re trying to exclude trans men from a general trans space “because most of the memes are trans fem” is really othering and hurtful

            i don’t feel like that reason makes it okay to be exclusive to trans men. if anything, that strikes me as a reason to be more considerate, not less

            sort of like how a typical women’s space should be considerate in including trans women, since they’re a minority of a marginalized group, no?

            incidentally, you should see that the rules of the subreddit which forbid bigotry and encourage tagging your post with the audience it’s aimed at