• radfrog@lemmy.wtf
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      5 months ago

      You’re a 4X? Explore, Expand, Exploit and Exterminate? Gender is wild nowadays.

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        4 months ago

        So, I’ve let this digest a bit.

        I do really like 4X games, especially Stellaris, it is very fun.

        On the other hand, I don’t know if people are gonna think I’m a total loser here but, seriously? You know what I meant, and it really feels like you are being trivializing and demeaning. Maybe you are just making light of stuff. But it really just feels like u are making a helicopter joke, and if you are, just leave me alone.

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              4 months ago

              Correction, because obviously “problem” should have been plural in my reply. 🙄

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                4 months ago

                I admitted in my reply you may have been making a joke and I may be taking things wrong, even though the connotations are there for me to plainly see, giving you a chance to simply reach out and clarify. You are escalating here, cursing at me and telling me I have problems when I’m just calmly reacting to what I saw as your subtle “light” transphobic joke.

                Edit: And why not, I’ll answer your question, what are my problems? I’m tired, stressed, overworked, underpaid, exploited, hated, feeling unloved, dealing with dysphoria and dysmorphia, stuck in place, stuck in a body that makes me cry, in pain, worried, at the end of my rope.

                And I usually get through it with a smile, I stay positive, I look forward. However many things are going wrong in my life at the moment and I am really struggling.