• jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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    3 months ago

    I think people that don’t spend much time in dense spaces have a limited idea of privacy.

    There’s privacy in the sense of being unseen, and there’s privacy in the sense of being unremarkable.

    I can walk down the street here and people will see me with their eyes but not their brain.

    In the suburbs where my parents live, if I walk down the street people will see and notice. It’s unusual to walk, so people take note of it. I’ve had the police stop and question me because I was walking (and I’m a white guy)

    Being completely unseen isn’t as valuable as being unremarkable to me. I can ride the train with a bunch of other people and they’ll see me, but they won’t care

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      3 months ago

      I got pulled over by police when I was in the US because I was riding a bike. To play devil’s advocate slightly, I was riding a crusty old Walmart BSO and I look like a scruff, and the town has a major homeless methhead problem so assumptions were made, but it still took them a while of talking to me to comprehend that I am happy to continue riding my bike, once they had at least figured out that I’m not a homeless methhead.

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        3 months ago

        Today I learned that “BSO” (bike shaped object) is a thing. I’m only on the edge of bike riding (I use the city bike rental thing here sometimes), and from a quick search I see there are depths, here.

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          3 months ago

          Ha! Sorry. I hear the term a lot from bike shop mechanics so it’s baked into my vocabulary at this point