• BestBouclettes@jlai.lu
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            2 months ago

            Not really, my dad’s a jackass and I don’t owe him anything.
            I understand why some people support their aging parents, I also can understand when they don’t.
            Like most things, it’s a matter of consent.

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              2 months ago

              That’s totally fair and you’re right. My mistake is assuming people are good parents and that their children love them.

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                2 months ago

                This is an article about an Olympian whose parents, both birth parents, failed her and her sister. They focused on drugs/alcohol instead of being a parent.

                I wouldn’t want anything to do with her mom either. Her grandparents were her caregivers growing up. They should get love from her. They raised her.

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      3 months ago

      There’s no conflict here. Hand outs are when the government gives money to undeserving people. Giving money to people and organizations of your choice is encouraged and laudable. Which sounds sensible on the surface.

      And this is why governments have to provide the social safety net, no one is excluded and the rules aren’t bendy.