Yeah, story of my life. Me too. Especially the part about “I don’t know what I did wrong, but people won’t explain it to me because they feel like I should magically know”

I totally identify with and agree with you. I also have to note that if there’s a small amount of downvotes that are within the margin of error, it might be a misclick or mistouch, especially if the upvote and downvote arrows are REALLY close together. I’ve gone back to look at some of the stuff I voted on only to find that I’d accidentally downvotes due to an overly sensitive gaming mouse, fat fingers, and / or just being too busy laughing at a funny meme or being excited by an amazing post and not really paying close attention to where I was clicking.

I corrected those accidental downvotes, but I’m OCD about stuff like that because I don’t like downvoting people either. So I can easily imagine that casuals who are clumsly or really excited about a post they like might downvote by accident and not go back and fix it. Totally serious here. A lot of downvotes are probably supposed to be upvotes.