When did I ever say it was always about romance?

This was the first comment that started the conversation which you then entered into:

The sex scenes that most mainstream dramas have traditionally had are brief and not explicit.

To which my response was:

And also not necessary. You don’t need to see two people fucking to know they’re in love. I assume you don’t need to see your friends fucking to understand that they met someone they’re really into.

We were talking about mainstream dramas.

That is why I also said:

And yet generally they’re romance scenes and not scenes involving lust or rape.

I am not the one saying it. Hollywood is.

And also why I said:

Are you really going to use those to claim that most sex scenes in Hollywood movies and TV are not about romance?

I mean I don’t know how I could have been more clear that I wasn’t talking about every case.