I feel like I’ve tried everything available in all the stores, at the shoe stores, I’ve bought the “good” ones off Amazon, the DUBEFWEE style brands too.

They all break or deform within a year, I can’t take it

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    WTF is going on here??? I have literally NEVER known of or heard of anyone using a shoehorn. Even my grandparents. I live in the US. Is this maybe a niche thing in some other country???

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      I use a shoe horn. It’s stainless steel. It’s never broken and I’ve had it for over 20 years.

      I don’t use it often, but for those times when your feet are wet/swollen or the shoes are leather dress shoes, it’s the only way to go.

      Plus, anyone with high arches will need that extra assist. It’s not a nationality thing, it’s a foot and shoe type thing.

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          Have you ever worn a pair of Florsheims or a pair of riding boots? You can totally remove the laces and you’ll still have the same difficulty.

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      My grandparents from Poland, and my grandparents from Italy had them, my parents and brother have them. I’ve never owned them. But I grew up in Florida, so you don’t need them for flip flops

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      I’m with you. Everyone in this thread arguing for shoehorns comes off like an actual kook. Buy shoes that fit your feet, and loosen the laces if you’re struggling. Anything else is stubborn insanity.

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        Leather slippers (or loafers, think they are called differently in some locations) don’t have laces you could possibly loosen.

        Hiking boots and winter shoes are often challenging to put on due to the rigid ankle support.

        Other shoes such as Converse and the likes get really worn out and flimsy on the heel, to the point where trying to slip in without support will just wrinkle them up.

        Some people are unable to bend down properly due to knee or hip issues, etc.

        Shoehorns make life easier for almost everyone. I’ve been using them for 20+ years and wouldn’t miss it.

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          lol I feel like I’m living in a different planet. I’ve got leather loafers. I just pull the on with my finger—never considered they a tn be a problem. Boots, umm, have laces. I also wear sneakers—the only ones that have a crumpled back are those that I’ve knowingly abused by making them effectively slip ons (not untying the laces).

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            lol I feel like I’m living in a different planet.

            😂 Are you just now learning that people experience different things in life?

            I don’t use a shoehorn, and I’ve finally embraced the Skechers Slip-Ins lifestyle and loving it, but shoehorns would definitely have made my life easier in some respects.

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      “To shoehorn something” is a literal common expression in Spanish, lately often used to indicate a deliberated misdirection of a debate into a different argument at the minimum occasion (usually via any fallacy)… and there are even shoehorns literally with long sticks for the elders…

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        It’s a fairly common expression in English, too, with much the same meaning. I don’t know what sort of rock these people are living under.

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      Some higher end brands come with shoe horns. I have a few now. I will say in all my years I have never broken or deformed one though, and I have some cheap ones from amazon too.

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      I can’t wait to discover that OP is a space marine and utterly despairing at the lack of suitable shoe horns for his 50 kg power armour boots

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      Definitely this. OP should try to position the shoehorn alongside his leg. If you use it in a wider angle over and over, not only makes it the process harder and more uncomfortable, it also bends the metal after some time.

      Ooooor, OPs feet are a freaky affront to nature.

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    Ikea, standing shoehorn. Goofy thing is styled like a snake, but gets the job done.

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    Get a new one. Go to a shoe cobbler, also to a good shoe store. Then show them your technique. I found it odd that you are bending them so soon. Have them watch you use it. Maybe it’s your technique.

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      “Ah, user error.”

      All kidding aside, I use a brass and wood shoehorn that I inherited from my grandparents. Thing is at least 50 years old.

      Whatever you’re doing, it’s not the horn.

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    Really? You are asking this?
    When I search “shoehorn” literally the first hit is a steel shoehorn.

    But as many here write, maybe your technique put more stress on the horn than necessary.
    The further put the shoehorn down the shoe, the more you stress the shoehorn.
    Try to use the horn more just on the edge of the shoe.

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    I had to look up what a shoe horn even was.

    Perhaps they are needed for certain feet types? Do you wear alot fancy shoes?

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      It’s so you don’t have to bend down, can be helpful for less mobile people with slip-on shoes

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      Nearly?!? I mean sure a furnace or a steam roller or a nuclear blast might do it but….putting on shoes?

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        Well, you do have a pretty big lever there. If your shoes are rather tight and you really gotta work your way in there, then you’re gonna exert quite a bit of force…

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          Dude. 1/2 size larger maybe?

          I kid but seriously. I once made the mistake of getting new shoes RIGHT before a convention where I was on my feet for 8-10 hours a day and no time to get different ones. They were too tight and that pressure caused me pain for years.

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            I mean, I don’t know what shoes OP is wearing, but if you’ve got uncushioned shoes (leather shoes or fake leather or whatever), then you do want them to be basically skin-tight. Otherwise, they’ll grind up and down your feet and give you blisters.

            But yeah, of course, if they crush your feet, that’s no good either. 🫠

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          I find it weird that nobody mentioned this. If you don’t have back problems and you’re tired of shoe horns breaking, in addition to reconsidering your technique, get a short metal one.

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      My ex GF bought me those and they were great for the first 12 months then they both deformed.

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    I’m surprised so many people here use them. I remember seeing one in my grandparents house in the 80s and thinking it was a relic then.

    From dress shoes to hiking boots to sneakers to you name it, I’ve never needed assistance getting a shoe on or off. What is their purpose?

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      I am surprised also, the only person I know that uses one is an old cowboy that got hit by a truck 45 years ago and has mobility issues. He has a long wooden one, possibly designed for riding boots.

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      Help you keep the shape when sliding the foot in, especially in nicer shoes.

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        Huh. Never had an issue even with nice shoes. I guess I just have slippery feet.

        I actually do have some joint hyper mobility so maybe that’s why I don’t see the utility of it? Dunno.

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          Less of an issue if you take the time to properly untie your shoes, I usually pull two rows of laces out as much as I can when taking them off and putting my feet in is basically as easy as in my Crocs

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    I got a stainless steel one on Amazon, it’s relatively thick steel, I have no idea how you’d be able to break it with only your hands and feet. I agree the plastic ones are shit.

    Edit: The brand was apparently “NINEMAX”. (Not a sponsor lol)