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The original was posted on /r/dating_advice by /u/Melimelo3220 on 2023-10-06 20:36:39.

I’ve been seeing this guy who I met 5 weeks ago and one of the things I like about him at the beginning was how he only had eyes for me, yesterday he asked me out and we just ended up at his place, playing chess and talking, we went for a walk after that and I noticed he checked out every girl who walked in front us, no a simple stare, but turning head and all that, he almost dislocated his neck in the process… I’m not a controlling type, but I’ve dated other guys who never done this, I have a big brother too, which never showed this behavior in front of his girlfriend, so I don’t think it’s acceptable to say it’s “ human behavior” When I am with someone, whether I find them good looking or not I alway put all my attention in them and never stare at other men on the street….

my friend says this is normal in guys, yeah, it’s ok to look at an attractive woman in front of you for a couple of seconds but not every pretty girl walking by… I find this so disappointing and disrespectful…

Am I overthinking too much? Making it a big deal out it?