Obviously a short statement like this one will not be a complete representation of the situation.
Often, especially people that compulsively try to not be assholes are very much assholes, since they expect to be ultra nice and be treated ultra nice in return, even if their niceness is situationally not appreciated and the niceness they expect in return for their own niceness is unreasonable.
The irony of this statement is that you may take any (human) disagreement with it as proof of it.
Yet lots of (human) people have the natural demeanour and default mindset to not be one. They’re like unicorns, sure, but they exist.
Obviously a short statement like this one will not be a complete representation of the situation.
Often, especially people that compulsively try to not be assholes are very much assholes, since they expect to be ultra nice and be treated ultra nice in return, even if their niceness is situationally not appreciated and the niceness they expect in return for their own niceness is unreasonable.