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The original was posted on /r/relationship_advice by /u/ThrowRA2023231 on 2023-10-07 10:28:22.

My husband and I (27m 27f) were looking at going to a comedy show. He decided against it because of the cost. His friend has messaged him today asking to go with him, so now they are going together.

He’s asked if I’m upset about it, which I said I had wanted to go as well but we didn’t purchase tickets because he said it was too expensive. And I also said I feel left out.

I’ve never met this friend. I’ve offered to have them come over to our house for food/drinks and my husband said his friend wouldn’t want to. I’ve also asked to hang out when they’ve gone to play pool (something husband has wanted to do with me but hasnt) and he said no.

I get him eanting to spend time with his friend alone that is fine, I just find it a bit weird I’ve never met him and seemingly the friend has no interest in meeting me. They don’t meet up that often so it’s not something I’ve pushed for. The friend is of a different culture, I don’t know how much that plays into it though. Husband has said the friend is “into comedy” and that’s why he’s going with him. I’m into comedy too… we watch the same stuff and like the same people. We went to another comedians thing earlier in the year and enjoyed it.

The comedy thing has made me feel pretty bummed honestly. I would have liked to go with my husband to see it. My husband keeps asking if I’m upset, I’ve said I’ve told him how I feel about it. How to get over the feeling of being ditched?