The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Theevilrata on 2024-12-25 03:45:16.

I just recently had an emergency appendectomy. (Emergency appendix removal). P.s me and my friend are very close and I was considering her one of my bsf.

(Skip this whole paragraph if u don’t want details) Anyways, I had the worst pain of my life and vomitied 20 times. If we are counting Everytime something came up I vomited over 80+ times. I couldn’t walk, not to mention I had not been able to keep food or drinks down for almost 2 days. I was taken to the hospital thinking it was just a stomache bug and I needed an iv. They started taking tests at around 12 am and we found out I was going to need surgery at about 1am due to me having perforated appendicitis. My iv was messed up so they ruptured a valve in my arm after multiple attempts of missing the vein, repeating it on my other arm so they could give me as many doses of [drug I’m not sure I’m allowed to say] as they could if that gives u just how much pain i was in. And ambulance rushed down and transferred hospitals where i went into surgery. I woke up with also the worst pain I have ever experienced. I couldn’t walk for a week, I missed two weeks of school including finals week (and then it was winter break.) so I hope that gives u a analysis of just how much pain I had and still is going through. Not to mention what my family went through, having to clean vomit 2 times an hour and having to pull all-nighters in the hospital. My brother 18m (medical student) and many of my friends had genuine fear that I wasn’t going to make it. I was sent gift baskets and people who openly disliked me including ex’s who I was in no contact show that they cared.

We have a gc where I talked about it and she would continuously switch subjects and suddenly just not say anything when the topic was back onto me. I thought was odd but I brushed it off until I realized she didn’t send me a message? She knew it happened but refused to say anything to me and this upset me so I asked my bsf about it and she texted her asking if she had said anything to me. I was hesitant about her asking that because I understand if you were to get defensive about that but she asked anyways. Her response was how she was “too busy”. She has posted TikTok’s with other people not to mention her overall doing a lot of things that shows she was nowhere near busy. Then she switched to how her family has had appendix issues before and how I’m going to be fine because there issues turned out fine. (Completely disregarding how much suffering me and my family had gone through, not to mention I missed 2 full weeks of school bc I couldn’t function.) This is the last thing I want to hear from someone after such series events .I’m not mentioning anything to her even though she has still refused to send a small text to me wishing I get better. If anyone wants the full messages tell me ! aita / being dramatic? Keep in mind she has done a lot of worse things to me but this was my last straw.