I’ve done a lot of organizing with ND comrades and I’d consider myself one. While you’d probably be uncomfortable in a front-facing position, there’s no reason why you can’t do administrative work.
I prefer to do a vice-president role myself where I handle the organization of what needs to get done and have the bumps and delegations done by someone else.
I’m still pissed that my mother told me I wasn’t allowed to play with my baby cousins or hold them after I turned 10 because I was a boy.
She still told everyone I was great with kids and would make a great parent one day despite the fact that she made it clear that showing affection to young family members as an boy was wrong.