Castor_Troy [comrade/them,he/him]

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Cake day: August 30th, 2021

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  • Since you invited grievances, here’s mine: I went through all of the online dating bullshit 12 years ago, met my soulmate, spent 10.5 years with her. She was in and out of hospitals the entire time and never got a clear diagnosis. Then one day she just suddenly fucking died at a horrifically young age. I found out a couple months later that she had an undiagnosed congenital disease that killed her. We both felt like she was never taken seriously at hospitals because she wasn’t insured, wasn’t white, had tats and piercings. Basically, she fit a profile. Shit fucking sucks. I’ll add that I understand not wanting to be alone. Although I’m alone now as a widower, it’s entirely different than when I was single before I met her. Having met her totally filled my heart, and I hope you can find the person that does that for you as well.