KimJongFun [he/him]

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  • KimJongFun [he/him]@hexbear.nettoacab@hexbear.netYea or nay?
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    3 months ago

    Yeah, I mean I know intellectually I don’t have to list them all out and that’s not actually, really, what I’m being asked for when someone asks this. And over the years I’ve gotten better, generally, at just picking something and running with it. It’s if that first answer doesn’t land though, that the panic sets in and I get this self destructive feeling like I have to justify my whole life, to prove that yes, actually, I am fun and I do fun things and have fun hobbies, please believe me. And ultimately what that really means is that person and I probably just aren’t meant to be friends, but damned if I can tell my brain that in the moment


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    3 months ago

    Just speaking personally, questions that are super broad like that trigger my social anxiety super hard. The more possible answers I have to a question the harder it is to answer it, especially if I’m trying to use the subject as a springboard for a real conversation and not just listing things out about myself while the other person stares blankly until I crumple into awkward silence, which of course is what inevitably happens after overthinking this. But I’m a socially inept bundle of neuroses so I guess your mileage may vary













  • This cnn article.

    Witnesses flagged down Dallas police officers around 10:30 p.m. local time Friday and directed them to Brown, who was lying in the parking lot of his apartment complex with multiple gunshot wounds to his lower body, police said.

    Brown was taken Parkland Memorial Hospital, where he died from his injuries. He was positively identified by the medical examiner Sunday, police said.

    Witnesses told police they heard several gunshots and saw a silver, four-door sedan speed away from the parking lot.

    But there are no detailed descriptions of the suspect.

    Brown “was ambushed at his apartment complex as he got out of his car and (was) shot at close range,” attorney Lee Merritt wrote in a Facebook post Saturday night. Merritt represents the Jean family.

    He said at the time a medical examiner told him Brown had been shot in the mouth and chest.