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  • Kusimulkku@lemm.eetome irl@lemmy.worldmeirl
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    50 minutes ago

    The whole idea that it would be a demand is baffling to me.

    Someone asking if you’re mad, assumes they know you in some way even if just in passing.

    Nope. It’s the same way as people might think someone looks happy, we just look at faces and try to interpret their emotions. And some people’s faces set off the “looks angry” assumption.

    In this situation you are the predator and the asker is the prey that is hoping that you already have a full belly.

    Taking the stance that someone else is a predator based on how they look and you might be their prey. And not only that, saying that aloud to them. Can be pretty damn insulting.













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    20 hours ago

    you look cute

    Definitely a compliment

    you should smile more

    Dunno what the intention was, I read it as “you look cute when you smile” but could be “you would look (even) cuter if you smiled”. If it’s either of those, that’s going to my compliment book.

    And yes, men are famine level starved of positive attention. So this “creepy demand” (demand??) defintely would count for me.


  • Democracy is not binary. That is why democratic scholars consider the United States to be what’s called “a flawed democracy.”

    Yes. It just seemed like you considered it as democratic/not democratic, instead of a scale where you could have such a thing as flawed democracy. I might’ve just misinterpreted your words.

    That’s the problem. California and Wyoming are separate, but they are not equal. Wyoming has 1/40th the population. One person in Wyoming has the same voting power as 40 people in California to determine their own laws and taxes. That’s reminiscent of taxation without representation. For all practical purposes, the people of California have been disenfranchised by the US government.

    I guess they could’ve made the original system such that US Senate accounted for population, but it would’ve been hard to get smaller states to join. It’s the reason why we in EU have the equal status.

    Lastly, how Ireland, or Star Wars, or anyone else organizes their federal system has no bearing on whether the US Senate is in fact anti-democratic.

    It was just an aside I was hoping you’d find interesting.




  • You are thinking of democracy as a binary thing instead of as a sliding scale. Not to mention you can have democratic form of government that isn’t very democratic or representative in actuality.

    Federations often have that sort of two tiered setup where there’s general population vote and a level where each state can represent themselves as the states. The idea makes sense when you think of it as a federation of separate and equal units, with the state tier you make sure every state is equally represented. Otherwise they might not want to be part of the whole federation. Of course it can be horribly uneven when you consider the populations. But that’s not too different from EU, where amount of MEPs differs but council seats and number of commissioners stays the same. Both Germany with 83 million people and Malta with 0,5 million people have the same number of council seats, commissars and both have veto rights. Unsurprisingly it’s a topic that sometimes gets heated, but like i said, without it there’d be outrage because everyone would be worried of core big countries deciding everything. Many countries would probably fuck right off from the Union.

    I think there’s been some misunderstanding here. None of this is some value take from me or me arguing for or against something. I haven’t at least consciously given much of an opinion on this, I’ve just described the reasoning behind the system and how it makes sense to me from the member state perspective.