A local alt for my kbin.social account: https://monyet.cc/u/Tarlia@kbin.social

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • 3 days from Lawas to Kuching is possible but knowing the road condition it won’t be fun.

    The route we took was fine. Probably the most unusual part for me was having the VIP escort the entire way. That said, there were long stretches of roads where we won’t see any civilisation for hours. I’ve gone to Ulu Pelagus via timber roads and THAT was a ride.

    That aside, how are Sarawakians feeling about 60 years of independence?

    Macam biasa jer. Just stay away from the city centre unless you want to be part of the jam festivities. 😏





  • I cant find the photos anymore, but I once went to a masquerade dinner wearing a Cyclops mask - similar to this but it ends under the nose. I bought it in KL during Halloween season from one of those popular shops selling these kinds of things. It was surprisingly good quality. I even stuck false eyelashes over the one eye. All night long, people were asking me if I could see through that mask and the answer is yes. My glasses even fit under it. I still miss it.




  • I’m older (F40+) and going through dating apps is a whole waste of time. It’s mostly scammers looking for lonely older women to scam, and dudes who don’t bother filling out their bios. Very hard to find anyone who would last more than a couple of days of “hi” and “how ru” back and forth.

    The best match I ever had was in Singapore, while I was in the departure lounge at Changi. He started out strong, and the banter was great and we did exchange Telegram handles. But he stopped making effort to develop any conversations, and when I tried, he gave short answers that told me nothing about him. Now you’d think he wasn’t interested but he was the one who initiates. Eventually I stopped replying to the uninspiring “hi”.

    My toxic trait is that if I’m busy, I ignore non-urgent or low-effort attempts to engage.