I actually asked about this in a previous mega, and people gave me some good options for what I should look at. So far it’s been cold enough for multiple layers, but soon there’s gonna be t-shirt weather and I don’t want to walk around with nipples basically poking through the fabric.

Major breast pain the last few days, hoping it’s a sign of growth happening.

Just a few weeks into HRT my aerolas got really puffy, and went from being mostly flat to small mounds, but almost nothing else has happened except directly around them yet, and it makes me feel insecure about wearing tighter shirts and stuff.

If you gaze long enough into the estrogen, the estrogen will gaze back into you.

The new Beyonce cover of Jolene has to be one of the lamest things I’ve ever heard.

Taking a song with a lot of vulnerability and changing the lyrics to remove all that vulnerability is incredibly sad and juvenile, and you’re just left with a lifeless corpse of a song.

There’s such a comical disconnect between pieces like this, where supporting trans people is some deep-grained orthodoxy no one ever dares to question, and the actual reality of living as a trans person, where most of us don’t get adequate healthcare and “respectable” newspapers publishes opinion pieces on whether you should be allowed to partake in society or not on a regular basis.

Wearing my new sneakers around the house because they’re so gender affirming

Thanks! It’s gonna be great to present a way I feel comfortable It’s not that big leap of a leap at this point. I’ve been dressing androgynous, often gender-neutral, but occasionally leaning pretty fem, for the last couple months there, and usually get gendered correctly by visitors, so I don’t think anyone is gonna react in any major way to me taking the extra step.

Part of why I felt dysphoric today was probably because my outfit was way too masc-leaning rather than gender neutral, but that still seems like a good sign that ending the half-measures and just being myself is gonna be good for me at this point.

Got an massive wave of dysphoria at work today because of the boymoding. Started to question why I fucking do this to myself. I’m lucky enough to be in a place where it wouldn’t cause problems for me if people knew that I’m trans, the only reason I boymode is because it would be a little bit scary not to. It’s really not worth feeling like shit just to avoid that. I’m done with this and I’m just gonna show up fem next week.

Omg! Good luck

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I woke up at 4 AM from a nightmare that a shadowy organization had broken into my house and confiscated all my estrogen vials and it took me several minutes to realize it was just a dream

Always love when I wake up and see there’s 20+ new comments in the trans mega

Funny how they frame it as Biden doesn’t align 100% with your desires instead of there’s literally zero places your interests align with his.

The realisations I’ve had over the last few weeks that I actually pass is giving me a dangerous amount of confidence

I had to give up halfway through this because of how painfully bad the writing is. The most shocking part of the text is that whoever wrote this claims to have an English degree.

Communists be like: the middle class isn’t real

Then explain to me why almost everyone I meet who make more than like 50k a year act like a complete troglodyte???

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Using a nuclear weapon is never morally justified, including in retaliation. Trying to paint incinerating millions of children as the moral course of action because you think it might hypothetically lead to a better future somewhere down the road is pretty silly.

It would almost certainly happen anyway, because second strike policy needs to be credible to function as a deterrent, but the actual moral choice would be not to.

I don’t think it’s weird, maybe a bit atypical, but not super rare.

I think most people can relate to some degree. My preferences fit pretty well inside conventional attractiveness, but there’s still occasionally supposedly super hot people that I just don’t… get.