Reminds me of this: https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/hatpin-panic-1900s
In that’s it’s men restricting our rights to defend ourselves
Edit: sort of :P This meme is only vaguely related I just find the hairpin thing very fascinating as a historical event
Presentation and gender identity does not need to match up! And some people struggle to present in certain ways. The safest bet is always to respect what you are told