If I as a right wing dickhead am convinced that a certain minority commits a certain crime / leeches off someone’s pockets / whatever, then from my point of view, this minority did breach the social contract of tolerance first. I think the problem is not some weird paradox but the mere fact that the right is actually convinced what they state is true.
I’m German and for me, “can’t complain” means I have nothing to complain, I’m fine, nothing special