come chat and vibe and vent. anything fun happen lately?

    • GaveUp [she/her]@hexbear.netM
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      10 months ago

      The current father also had a child with my mother and is against me telling my sibling about racism, even though it will affect him, as it does already.

      This is so perplexing. White people who refuse to acknowledge that racism is real are the worst, I’m so sorry

      • Lorraine [he/him]@hexbear.net
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        10 months ago

        Thanks friend, people will really do anything but discuss topics that make them feel guilty or uncomfortable in fear of feeling complicit…making themselves complicit in turn lol disgost

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      10 months ago

      I’ve lost touch with my family so I don’t know how the marriages turned out but some of the women in my extended family married hwite dudes. there’s less of a fetish thing with brown women though so idk. WMAF couples always make me wonder how much of it is fetish and how much of it is real.

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        10 months ago

        Yeah, it’s kind of hard to look at WMAF couples in a normal way when there isn’t a shortage of white men who say they have an “Asian preference” just because their attempts with white women failed and they think of Asian women as “more docile and submissive”… yuck.