The title pretty much says it all. I’ve always struggled to connect with others, but the farther I find myself outside of societal norms, the harder it gets.

  • Vanth@reddthat.com
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    8 months ago

    So your equation for pros/cons of staying on FB versus pros/cons of leaving is different than mine and both of us very likely weigh FB differently than OP would. Great for you if you find value in staying on FB. Understand that not everyone wants to find dates on FB, nor that FB is even an equally good platform for finding dates everywhere in the world.

    You don’t need to tell me I’m missing out on potential dates by leaving FB. Just stay there yourself and be happy, my friend.

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      8 months ago

      well that’s the sad thing - I don’t use nor have I really ever. The most social I ever did was 15 years of reddit.

      But I watch friends and colleagues, go out on dates with like-minded people, or find great deals on furniture, and I can’t help but think “huh.”

      My main point is, it’s a horrible app/platform, but it has incredible utility by way of reach.