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  • No. The native American bit was for the “why don’t Israelis just leave/give back the land?” people… Because after 70+ years people have grown up, worked hard, bought land, raised families, etc.

    nobody I know in America would want to say “hey, I worked my whole life to (own my property, build my business, raise my family, etc) … If the native Americans asked really hard I’d give it back” …

    But a lot of people are saying that the Israelis should just leave.

    Edit. The other bit is that there are Muslims who live in Israel. There are Christians/atheists/etc who live in Israel as well.

    Jews aren’t welcome in SA, Iraq, Iran…

    Concentration camp is not a good analogy for what’s going on here



  • Apologies in advance for the wall of text. We’ve had a lot of conversations…

    Spouse is half Israeli with lots of family over there. I’m casually Jewish with AuDHD for context so we tend to see things really differently.

    I personally don’t like that religious countries exist in the first place. So I’m not only against Israel, but also most countries in that part of the world. “Just nuke that entire part of the world” has been mentioned quite a few times. So that’s a bit of the conversation.

    We tend to focus on the hostages when we talk about the war, and that Israel may be winning the ground war but it’s losing the pr war.

    We blame Bibi for keeping the war going and not making more surgical spy-type strikes. I used to say that he had one day to get the world behind him and say “look, this is what I’ve been talking about about!!!” That was all dismissed though when the first cease fire happened. Hamas broke it by sending some small numbers of missiles that got caught by the iron dome and Israel retaliated by sending 100x the number of missiles, killing several people. The news outlets all led with Israel sending the rockets and only briefly mentioned that Hamas struck first.

    We blame Hamas for keeping all of their leaders in other countries and all of their weapons and missile silos in civilians backyards. Treating their citizens like shit and saying the only way their family is guaranteed to not go hungry is to join the military…

    Just putting this out there … If you’re American and not native American. And native Americans were yelling “from sea to shining sea the native American tribes must be free” and started killing people, started saying how they want their land back and everything … How would that be treated?







  • I had the same culture shock once. Worked on the corporate side of a fitness club that said, we ask if you could please limit taking at most one class per day during work hours. Because people would end up taking class after class… It was a soft rule that most of the die hard class fans broke all the time with no issues.

    Place before that, if you were >15 min late, you had to interrupt the CEO with whatever meeting he had and tell him why you were late. Suppliers, partners, negotiations, doesn’t matter the meeting. This was a non customer facing corporate job in a company of like 100+ people that was like 50+ years old…


  • The drug episode where everybody on the ship plays the mind numbing game … They are all immediately under the spell of it, but when the kids break it down it’s literally just a machine that makes you feel good. There’s no “oh this part hypnotizes you and changes your behavior immediately”

    And the speed of it … There’s no “oh wow. This sucks I’m addicted to a game” … It’s literally “this is a cool game” to "let’s kill data because he’ll figure it out and stop us so we can’t spread it to all the kiddos in Starfleet to take to their new ships… And the instant detox was flashes of light??? Wtf??

    At least the “two races, where one enslaves the other by selling it heroin disguised as medicine” episode showed people who were self aware enough to realize they were in a shitty condition.

    The speed at which these super introspective people completely change without a second thought always pissed me off… And those are just the episodes I remember out of the blue.



  • In my totally uneducated opinion:

    It depends on the business

    Let’s say I’m some high schooler, who purely needs some money for a summer job, or an after school job. I’ll probably work at a place I’m not too thrilled about, but just need some spending money (for me, it was the local CVS/duane reade/Genovese) . I’m going to be there for a few months. Maybe a year or two and then the plan is to move on. I’m not going to care about what happens to the company afterwards. I also don’t have much stake in the company.

    This goes the same for any college kid who wants to work their way through school. My friends and I all had jobs that we didn’t give a shit about, working at the local grocery store or helping out at a local restaurant.

    These are also companies that have a corporate and non corporate/retail side. Should I as a seasonal retail worker have the same voting rights as someone who has been there in corporate for a few years and plan on being there for several more (because this is democratic, not oligarchy right, means 1 person, 1 vote right?)? Who has a much better vantage point for the markets, numbers, and so on? The retail workers could vote for everyone to get 1 million dollars a year salary, and because there usually are many many more retail floor workers than corporate workers, we would win. I don’t care about long term, because I’ll only be there a few months or a year so I’ll take all I can get.

    I would argue that there are two main types of people in the world. People who care about their work and the company they work at, and people that just want the money and then go home and not care. A person can hop back and forth between the sides many times through their lives, but a functioning society has to find ways to accommodate both. So if you really care, you can start your own business or join an eosp type company, or work your way to partner, and if you don’t, you can just work there for the pay check, and let the people who care make the decisions…

    Decisions are made by the people who show up






  • So… Iirc you can shuffle all of the episodes in a library … Not sure about cross library. I just have one for TV and one for movies.

    I know you can definitely make a smart playlist for the shows you want to shuffle through and go from there. Like I have a bunch of a few episodic tv shows, added them through regex to a smart playlist and hit shuffle all the time.



  • How technical is your dad?

    Also honestly. Sometimes it’s a lot nicer to just push a button and have something come on.

    One of the main reasons I use Plex is their random feature. “Wanna watch a syndicated episodic show and don’t care which ep? Press random” vs other streaming services you have to actually choose an episode.


  • As Cishet white-ish person, who is only tangentially connected to this community IRL, but wants to be supportive, is there a definitive list of pronouns? It seems to me and many other people that if you just keep adding more and more, people get confused and or feel alienated and then some people get angry when confused, because they get frustrated and don’t want to do the wrong thing.

    I usually default to “they” unless absolutely told, because It seems that once it gets so individualized, things go a bit nuts. We may as well just abolish all pronouns and only use proper nouns.

    Side question, I’m neurodiverse (diagnosed ADHD, probably a bit on the spectrum), I feel very very weird before coming out to people, especially at work, as I think it will be used against me. There are still places in this world that would hurt/imprison/kill non-cis, non-hetero people. With such an interconnected world, especially with those places, how does one handle it while also trying to keep being proud of your identity? Wouldn’t putting neo pronouns in a profile open you up for targeting?