I support most of what is said here, but users from here tend to be very aggressive and combative. Everything is politics and pretending otherwise is very lib, so I can both understand why you do it and why people find it annoying.
In the early days, this sub was constantly brigaded by chuds, terfs, libs, patsocs, wreckers and branches of leftism that were somehow even more online than us and had an irrational hatred of us for reasons that frankly I never cared enough to bother learning. Like any such place, that means we’re used to people coming in “just asking questions” with a bad take, and turning out to be a concern troll rather than someone asking in good faith and open to changing their mind.
This produced a culture of radical, frank struggle sessions, an approach to moderation that the Cheka circa 1919 would think lacks due process (and is good and cool and has made this place possibly the most LGBT friendly place on the net.), and a bad habit of dunking for a laugh. We’re not nearly as edgy as a first impression might give, though.
We are aggressive and combative against racism, ableism, transaphobia or when someone is attacking one of us or our community…that is what gives us the moral high ground.
Those are literally the only things we have got remotely aggressive with on the fediverse so far.
and homophobia, and capitalism, and sexism and imperialism and colonialism and bazinga brain, most importantly bazinga brain
I don’t hate y’all, but some of the posts here can be indigestable. Some posts simply assume everyone is on the same page with something - which is likely true, since you’ve been a community for a long time.
Maybe I’ll come back and edit this with an example at some point.
You’re witnessing us after we’ve gone through countless internal debates and purges, some of which will always be legendary. We had a problem with transphobes at the start, they’re all gone. We had a really bizarre fight for about a week over whether or not cats should be allowed outside.
My favorite of ours was the weirdly intense debate over if it’s ok to stack rocks next to or inside of a river.
There was also BMF, one of the strangest people to ever live. My personal favorite was @LiberalSocialist@hexbear.net, who was the most contradictory poster we had. You’d think LiberalSocialist was an elaborate Andy Kaufman level bit of someone pretending to be an annoying liberal, but I think it’s always been unclear whether it was a gimmick or not.
ofc cat should be allowed outside what the hell 🤔
You can love cats being outside or you can love wildlife but you can’t love both.
