Same. I understand the need for a gender neutral word, but the world we are trying to build is based on love, passion and art. I don’t want brutalism to permeate the language when nicer, more thoughtful words exist that people won’t object to.

It almost feels like a solution looking for a problem in the way that someone identified the fact that “husband” and “wife” can be problematic, but instead went towards the clinical instead of the soulful