• ashinadash [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    7 months ago

    Not even just among g*mers and nerds, it is a common toxic masculine thing. Used to see askreddit threads and relationshipadvice posts and stuff all “my(27f) husband(46m) of 10 years has never washed his ass and I’m finally sick of his dingleberries getting in the bed all the time. What can I do? I tried telling him to wash his ass, but he said he ‘won’t let me turn him into a force feminised soy gay male’ in response.”

    • dkr567 [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
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      7 months ago

      That is honestly sad and worrying (excluding people that could suffer from depression or others that impede them from cleaning themselves). The fact that basic hygiene is somehow considered “gay” or not washing is “masculine”.