I, personally, like to take the opportunity to express aspirations: not just trying to stop doing things I feel are harmful, but also to try new things or practice positive things more. A couple from me:
- Avoid sarcasm when dealing with people, especially strangers, it does not go over well when they don’t get the joke
- Do something positive, helpful, and non-criminal to counter the right wing political trend. (granted, this one needs more detail)
How about you?
Get a car. I’ve never actually needed one but I’m staying in Thailand this year and the rainy season will be tough in 2025 so some shelter would be nice. It’s a big learning experience and the 2nd hand market here is really scammy so it’s not that easy to find something without investing a big chunk of time.
Kill the Batman
My biggest goal is to get a new band together. After moving across the country in 2021, I have desperately missed writing, recording, and most of all, performing.
I resolve to give up New Year’s resolutions. It’s too god damn much pressure.
Unfortunately now that I’ve made my resolution, I can’t figure out - did I succeed or fail at keeping my resolution?🤔
Someone I knew told me that instead of making resolutions, they used the new year to review the last year, and then maybe adjust their ongoing goals in response. Seems way more useful to me. I’ve done it a bit, and it gives more of a sense of direction/velocity, and less opportunity for guilty failure.
Drink even less alcohol than last year (and I cut way back last year, too)
To remember to make resolutions next year
Same as last year and the year before.
Try to be able to comfortably run a half marathon. This time last year I set the same goal but for 10k and I’ve definitely hit that goal, but want to go further.
Tryna not drink so much, starting with Sober January. I’ve been drinking heavily after an incredibly rough year of personal BS, and I need a break from it to get my head on straight.
To either finish projects or cancel them and move on. No more lingering crap.
That has been mine a few years ago inspired by the cult of done manifesto and I found it very compelling! Maybe you’ll find this helpful
Slow down, live in the present, and enjoy who and what I already have in my life. That includes being more forgiving to myself and others, worrying less about all of the possible things I could be doing (personally and professionally) and instead choosing one thing at a time to focus my energy on, and being more aware of my own thoughts and feelings, then expressing them in a healthy way.
My resolution is fuck it
All of it?
(Seriously, that’s actually a good resolution if you have anxiety)
Maybe, we’ll see.
To only focus on what I can impact locally and build out more mutual aid.
To do dry January at least. Been drinking way too much lately
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